Squirting is more than just pussy-juice

A question I get asked over and over again is What is squirting? Can most women squirt? and Is squirting something women can learn and men can enjoy as part of their normal sexual experience?

There is very little reliable scientific research carried out on Female Ejaculation, Gushing or as it is best known Squirting. It is one of these sexual topics that arouses enormous interest in men and women yet is seldom openly discussed or understood. As someone who has enjoyed squirting many times I feel that my own personal experience and understanding is just as important as the limited scientific tests recorded (with less than ten women surveyed in most cases.) The few official tests that are quoted are inconclusive and often contradictory. It is generally believed that there is a high level of interest and experimentation among women, with maybe 50% of sexually liberated women having either experienced or actively attempted squirting. But there are still more questions than answers among the sexual experts and pundits.

Put simply, squirting is what happens when a woman is stimulated in a way that when she reaches a climax her body releases fluid. This ejaculation of squirt fluid is usually accompanied by an orgasm but it can also happen without orgasm. The starting point to understanding Squirting is a woman’s G Spot. The mention of the G Spot usually results in more jokes about its actual existence and how a man can find it. It is often said that it would be easier to find the source of the Nile than it would be to find the G Spot. This is simply not true, all you need is two fingers. You don’t need a map although it is always useful to know as much as possible before setting out on your expedition of discovery.

This is the nearest thing to a G Spot map that I have come across.

Before you embark on any sexual game or adventure, remember that good sex is always made better by good foreplay. A slow sensuous build-up is best in most cases but it is particularly important in building towards a feeling as all-encompassing as squirting. Never cut to the chase without paying attention to personal hygiene, warm comfortable surroundings, nice background music, travelling through all the erogenous zones, stroking, caressing, all the beautiful little things that make sex beautiful.

The easiest way to go in search of the G Spot is to insert two finger into the woman’s vagina, gently at first but slowly becoming more vigorous as you heads in a northern direction, simultaneously probing, caressing and massaging. Operating the thumb on the clitoris at the same time can greatly improve the pleasurable feeling for the woman as the stimulation grows. Be aware that trimming fingernails is very important beforehand so that the woman can experience the most comfortable, exciting and pleasurable feelings throughout.. The woman can help in the search for the G Spot by urging on the man and offering advice and directions along the way. Little complimentary words of encouragement or excitement from the man will not go unnoticed either. Practice makes perfect.

The essential information you should set out with is that the much sought after G Spot is located about 3 to 4 centimetres, about two finger knuckles, upwards on the inside stomach area. It is an actual spot which becomes harder or often spongey when stimulated. With experience the man or woman can recognise the G Spot by touch. Medical research has shown that the G Spot also gets darker during stimulation which is probably explained by a rush of blood to the energised sexual point.

A woman should be as relaxed and as unstressed as possible if she is to succeed at something as simple but also as complicated as squirting. The sexual partners need to trust each other and to work together towards their ultimate squirting goal. There should be no embarrassment or need for apologies if this does not happen in the beginning. What is important is that both partners are open and honest with each other and that they can talk through their difficulties and learn from their mistakes. Sex is not a precise science, it is best experienced with no rules and no limits.

Finding the G Spot is the single most important factor in taking the woman to the point of Squirting. This is the fundamental difference between reaching orgasm through sexual contact with the vagina, tongue, the penis or whatever vibrators or stimulators are sometimes used. The G Spot must be caressed gently in the beginning, then gradually in a firmer and more aggressive manner, with the man always being conscious of how his partner is responding, sometimes pushing forward or pulling back as the two bodies work together to reach the maximum sexual explosion.

When the man feels the woman’s body tighten and heighten in her response, he should move from firm solid stimulation to much more aggressive movements to bring the G Spot to its uncontrollable climax. He may start out with wrist-work manipulating the fingers and the G Spot but finish up with his arm thrusting backwards and forwards. When ejaculation starts, that is the time to push even harder and take the experience to an even higher level. At this point the vagina is a very willing accomplice that can take more pressure than many people might realise. The best rule of thumb (maybe not the best phraseology in this case) for a man is “Don’t stop unless the woman tells you to stop.” In most cases you will be surprised how far that allows both partners to go.

This foreplay, sexual contact, stimulation and bodily interaction encourages not just the man but the woman to produce differing bodily fluids which in turn build pressure to the point where Squirting or ejaculation occurs. For the man it’s much easier to reach the point of ejaculation but for the woman that is part of the reason she has her G Spot tucked away inside her. It would make life so much easier if it had been more conveniently positioned from the outset, but unfortunately that’s one more challenge a woman faces in life.

We all know what the male’s semen is, but there is still a lot of debate as to what this female squirting liquid is. Is it simply urine? Most medical tests show the presence of at least some urine in the fluid which is ejected but it is widely believed that squirt fluid is a combination of liquids, sugars, and electrolytes that combine with varying quantities of urine. The skene gland actively produces a fluid in the course of G Spot stimulation which finishes up as part of the squirt liquid, but some medical opinion contend that this fluid is mainly for lubrication rather than ejaculation purposes.

In my personal experience the squirt liquid is a clear colour unlike the yellowish colour of urine, it does not smell like pee and has a different feel, texture and viscosity. Other pundits have said “If it looks like pee, it more than likely is pee.” It may be that different women’s bodies and differing stimulating methods can influence the percentages of urine and squirt fluid that combines and interacts while the pressure builds to produce the final ejaculation.

The best sexual position for a woman who wishes to achieve Squirting is lying on her back with a cushion under her bottom. This makes her as comfortable as possible from the outset while allowing the man better access to her G Spot and clitoris at the same time.

The woman will normally experience a feeling of wanting to pee as the body builds to the point of squirting. For newcomers to squirting, they may feel the natural reaction to pull back at this point and not allow the woman’s body to continue to the point of squirting, particularly if she thinks of Squirting as urinating which it is not. It is important she is fully confident and assured that the man is happy and wants her to squirt, otherwise her natural inhibitions could cause her to pull back at the very moment when she should be letting go. She has to learn to relax and allow her body to do what it is telling her it wants to do — in this instance to Squirt. You should always listen to your body and allow it free rein. When a couple become experienced and understand how to take this type of orgasm to its natural climax it can be a beautiful and primal experience like no other.

For many sexually liberated people Squirting can be an amazing discovery but it is also a very personal feeling which some will love and others may try and decide it is not for them. That is perfectly normal and acceptable, but as with most things with sex, until you try it you will never know.

For me “No Limits” is my one and only rule. For everyone else, enjoy the journey.

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