7. A man can prepare for sex by visualising what to do from the time his partner appears at the door to when she leaves the house the next morning. You may not find this method in the medical text books but in the real world of sex, where people are looking for more meaningful experiences, you should take a broader look at how you approach love making. Invite your sexual partner out for an enjoyable evening or ask her home to share a candle-lit dinner or look at a movie together. Take good care of your hygiene, your appearance, your demeanour. Let the evening develop slowly. Talk and laugh together, cook and eat together, approach the final act of sex in a natural and fun way. Temper your body not just for the act of sexual climax but for the whole experience. Consider everything as foreplay and when you finally make love together it will help everything including ejaculation to be the best possible experience for both partners
8. Advantages of using a condom or cock ring
Firstly, using a condom takes away the worry of when you can or cannot come with your partner – you can come safely at any time
Secondly, when a condom is tight it restricts the flow of blood which can help in manipulating a man’s penis and allowing him more time before climax and ejaculation Thirdly, and less well known, is that you can buy special condoms that contain the anesthetic Benzocaine. They are definitely available from Durex and Trojan and possibly other sources. This product is useful and worth a try in the battle against premature ejaculation but like almost every product on the marketplace it can have its downsides too. In many cases it can reduce sensitivity a bit too much or you may run the risk of having erection problems due to the combination of numbing from the anesthetic and the layer of latex on top.
These condoms are easy to find in most countries, often available in pharmacies, supermarkets, sex shops and many other places that stock condoms. If you prefer to buy them online, you can find them at amazon.com or various commercial websites.
A cock ring or constriction devices is a ring worn around the penis, usually at the base. The primary purpose of wearing a cock ring is to restrict the flow of blood from the erect penis in order to produce a stronger erection or to maintain an erection for a longer period of time. Genital adornment is another reason for wearing one of them. Cock rings can have a fixed or adjustable size. A good cock ring should be able to fit tightly around the penis. This leaves them quite uncomfortable until a man gets used to them but sexual partners who practice BDSM really like them.
9. There are a wide range of creams, sprays or gels available to combat premature ejaculation. There are literally more than 100 of these products on the market. No single product is going to suit everybody as the causes and severity of problem will differ from person to person. In my experience avoid products containing Lidocaine as it can block pleasure for both sides
The main advantages of ejaculation delay products are that they are easy to get, work quickly and you don’t have to put any effort into learning ejaculation control.
The main problems are that it’s not a long term cure and it can cause a loss of pleasure and erection strength.
One excellent product I have used with my partner which really works is Intimateline T5 Tauro retardant spray
10. The use of Viagra or similar drugs can help with this problem but it can also lead to a dependence on these drugs which is not good in the long-term. It is probably better to try other solutions first such as those listed above before resorting to Viagra type drugs.
There are numerous different products and types of condoms, constriction devices, creams, gels, sprays and other sexual aids which aim to eliminate problems such as premature ejaculation and improve your sex life. I will devote a future blog to picking out some excellent products which I can recommend from personal experience. I will tell you what to choose and how to use them. If you have any questions arising from this blog just send me a message and I will reply
Love as always